Letter to the Editor: Embracing American Values of Kindness, Civility and Pride
As the city manager, it is often difficult for people to differentiate between my professional and personal life. While they often intertwine, I write this as a private citizen and proud American.
As Americans, we are privileged to experience freedoms, prosperity, and a way of life that many worldwide envy. Yet, amidst our abundance, we must not forget the sacrifices and values that paved the way for our prosperity. Our way of life is a legacy handed down by those who came before us, who fought for our freedoms and secured our rights. If we wish to preserve these blessings for future generations, we must recognize the importance of upholding the values that define us as Americans: kindness, civility, and pride in our heritage.
One generation that stands out in embodying these values is the Silent Generation, born between the Great Depression and the end of World War II. Often overshadowed by the Greatest Generation's heroic feats and the Baby Boomers' idealism, the Silent Generation quietly shaped our nation through their unwavering principles and resilience in adversity.
Characterized by discipline, hard work, and respect, the Silent Generation exemplifies traditional values that have stood the test of time. Their experiences, including serving in wars and witnessing civil rights movements, shaped their personalities and instilled a deep sense of duty and community.
Today, as we reflect on the values of the Silent Generation, we are reminded of the importance of kindness and civility in our society. We must learn from their example and strive to treat others respectfully and with compassion, regardless of our differences. As demonstrated by the recent loss of a beloved community member - one of the first people to welcome my family to Russell - true greatness is measured not by wealth or status but by the kindness and generosity we show to others. This gentleman, whom I had the privilege of knowing, is remembered as a gentleman grounded in his faith and patriotism. He was always kind and willing to help anyone regardless of station in life, all without pomp and circumstance.
Moreover, as proud Americans, we must uphold the principles enshrined in our Constitution and honor those who have sacrificed to defend our freedoms. We must reject divisiveness and embrace respectful dialogue and cooperation to address our community’s, state’s, and nation’s challenges.
In our increasingly polarized society, it is more important than ever to heed the lessons of the past and work towards a future guided by kindness, civility, and pride in our American heritage. Let us come together as a community, state, and nation, inspired by the values of the Silent Generation, to build a brighter future for generations to come.
We can learn from the beloved community member who recently passed: He did not seek recognition but sought to help others through his faith, family values, and service. I never heard a negative or condescending word from him—a true gentleman who loved the United States of America and was proud to call Russell home.
Russell is a great community full of potential. Many folks of all ages, backgrounds, and experiences work daily to improve our quality of life and ensure our long-term success. I thank each of those public servants, faith leaders, business leaders, civic groups, and silent leaders who shape our community daily.
I leave you with a portion of Mary Stewart’s prayer: Keep up from all pettiness. Let us be large in thought, in word and deed. Let us be done with fault-finding and leave off self-seeking. May we put away all pretense and meet face to face, without self-pity and prejudice. May we never be hasty in judgment and always be generous. Grant that we may realize that the little things create differences, that we are one in the big things of life. And most of all, let us not forget to be kind.
Sincerely,
Jon Quinday
Husband, father, and grandfather
Russell, Kansas